I know that he will have to learn all men are not just honest, all men are not true. But teach him also that for every scoundrel there is a hero that for every selfish politician, there is a dedicated leader. Teach him that for every enemy there is a friend.
It will take time, I know; but teach him if you can, that dollar earned is of far more value that five found.
Teach him to learn to lose and also to enjoy winning. Steer him away from envy; if you can, teach him, the secret of quiet laughter. Let him learn early that the bullies are the easiest to lick.
Teach him, if you can, the wonder of books but also give quiet time to ponder eternal mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun and flowers on a green hillside.
In School teach him. It is far more honorable to fail that to cheat. Teach him, to have faith in his own ideas, even if everyone tells in they are wrong.
Teach him to be gentle with gentle people, and tough with the tough. Try to give my son the strength not to follow the crowd when everyone is getting on the bandwagon.
Teach him to listen all men, but teach him also to filter all the hears on the screen of truth, and take only the good that comes through.
Teach him, if you can how to laugh when he is sad. Teach him, there is no shame in tears. Teach him to scoff at cynics and to beware of too much sweetness.
Teach him to sell his brawn and brain to the highest bidder, but never to put a price tag on his heart and soul. Teach him, to close his ears to a howling mob and to stand and fight if thinks he’s right.
Treat him gently, but do not cuddle him, because only the test of fire makes fine steel. Let him have the courage to be impatience let him have the patience to be brave.
Teach him always to have sublime faith in himself, because then he will always have sublime faith in mankind.
This is a big order, but I see what you can do. He is such a fine little fellow, my son!
– Abraham Lincoln